Monday, August 29, 2011

Care




It's not really a bad thing to be concerned about your love ones and shower them with affection & care. But at times, people tend to go overboard by being unduly/excessively concerned about the people they love. This is prevalent in various relationships, be it, parents to children, bfs to gfs, teachers to students, humans to their pets and vice versa etc.

I am not demanding you to stop caring about me. I just dont want you to control whatever I am doing as it's simply a mere restriction to my freedom.It's nothing but like being locked up in a virtual cage. Imagine people telling you not to do this and not to do that when they dont even have the right to gain control over your life. Being a control freak aint a value destroying way to show how much you love someone.

A guy may care for a girl too much and got easily jealous which would lead to an unhappy ending in pursuit of the girl. A father may control everything his son does and causes retaliation from the son. A teacher may expect too much from her student which eventually demotivates the student.

It's no longer loving the person if you care about the person too much, it will just bring about hatre which results in relationships among people to deteriorate. Sometimes you dont really have to do so much to love someone as in fact they already know.:)

*Jealousy is a way of telling someone that you care for them too much to let them go*





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